Are You Always Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop? You May Be Anxiously Attached

If you often feel like you care more than the other person, or constantly worry that a partner is going to leave, you might lean toward an anxious attachment style. You may crave closeness but fear it's not mutual. Small changes in someone’s tone or mood can feel huge.

This isn’t about being “too much”, it’s about your nervous system trying to protect you. Often, anxious attachment develops when early relationships are inconsistent or unpredictable.

Understanding this pattern can be the first step in shifting it. Therapy can help you build trust in both yourself and your relationships, and learn to meet your needs in healthy ways.

Virtual therapy sessions are available in Illinois, Ohio, New York, Kentucky, South Carolina, and Florida. Schedule a consultation call to learn more.


**The content on this blog is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional therapy, counseling, or medical advice. While I strive to provide valuable insights and resources, the information shared here should not be used as a stand-alone solution for mental health concerns or personal challenges.

If you are experiencing significant emotional distress or mental health issues, please seek the guidance of a licensed therapist or healthcare professional. If you are in crisis, please contact emergency services or a crisis hotline in your area.

Your well-being matters, and professional support can make a meaningful difference.**


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